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Sunday, December 28, 2008

addition to the family!

holy $#!£

i just spoke to my mother and she told me that MY BROTHER GOT MARRIED YESTERDAY!!!

Akiko was leaving on Sunday to Japan to be with her family for New Years, and my brother was scheduled to follow a week later. The purpose of him going was so that her parents could meet him and he could ask for her hand in marriage. They have been together for about 3 years, and have been living together for about 2, and they even have a dog together. She really wanted her parents permission first, but with her visa expiring in less than 2 months she decided to just take the plunge and go for it.

They decided on Christmas Day, Thursday, but since Friday they were both working all day, and Sunday she was leaving for Japan, that only left Saturday. So they went and got some silver bands, went to the court house with one of his friends and one of hers (two witnesses required), and signed their papers! Then she went home to pack and he went to work. My mother called him that night just to say hi and see how he is doing and he told her. And she told me when I called her today to see how she is doing. They have already told her parents and so now his trip to Japan has been converted from going to ask for her hand in marriage to meeting his in-laws!!!

We are very excited for Joseph and Akiko Wakai Koumpounis!!!

And the plan is to all meet up in Greece this summer! the whole tribe will descend on Athens in June and we'll hang for 2 weeks. wow wow wow!!!

so according to my mother ... one down, one to go!

then i called my father in greece and told him the news that my brother is married. he was happy and asked me to ask my brother to call him. so i suggested that my father call him instead. so i gave him the number and he said he would call. i don't know how many years it's been since they have talked. then i broke the news to him that we are all coming to greece this summer. mind you my father sold our family house in the suburbs of athens, severed ties completely with the majority of the family, and lives with his partner more than an hour outside of Athens by the sea. My mother hasn't been to Greece sine 91, and my brother since 96. Needless to say he was shocked. i made it clear we are going as a vacation and if he chooses to he can see any or all of us but no expectations, no burden. he was still very shocked by the time we got off the phone. lets see what happens as it gets closer to the date.

what a morning!!!

happy happy happy monday
kisses and love and hugs and laughter to you all...

Friday, December 26, 2008

christmas in the city!

nisarga had hoped we would be spending it in goa. he had wishes of hot sun, sand and sea. but we agreed on delhi. why? because of friends. i absolutely didn't want to spend christmas on the road somewhere when there is the option of being with friends. especially since i recently cut my umbilical cord with my apartment.

so we descended upon delhi on the 22nd dec, monday, and started to make the rounds. we had not expected it but we had lunch and/ or dinner every day at someones place. nisarga was resistant to going out so much. it was only his second christmas out of poland and away from his family, so there were emotions to be considered.

and there was a cultural gap to be overcome... unbeknown to me. lets see. when i say christmas dinner, i mean dinner on the 25th. when i say Christmas eve dinner, i mean dinner on the 24th. and so goes for lunch. when are presents opened? christmas morning, no... not at midnight, in the morning. gotta give santa and the reindeer a chance to reach your place during the night right?

well guess what? most of the Europeans think otherwise. christmas dinner is on the 24th, and opening presents happens at midnight. so this resulted in confusion between this american gal and the europeans. how did i not notice this before? how did i not realize this difference before? well... i had not! so i double booked us and thought we had plans when we didn't. and nisarga was frustrated with me because the night of the 24th was so important to him and he didn't want to be with strangers, and i had booked us for two dinners and a surprise birthday party that night.

so what ended up happening? we went to the first dinner, with my good friend uffe and his mother who are both visiting india for the holidays; they are from denmark so this was the European version of Christmas dinner. His christmas gift to us was an exquisite dinner at the Imperial Hotel. There were oysters, ham, sushi, lamb, cow, shrimp, fois gras, cheeeeeeze, olives, chocolate, chocolate, chocolate and everything else you can think of. Nisarga, in honor of his Polish traditions, had fish (salmon and tuna, not carp) as part of his meal. (This made up for not being with Polish folk for this very important meal, a concern his mother had.) We finished there at around 11:30 and all we could do at that point was unbutton our pants before the button popped out, and take a taxi home. We put up the Christmas tree and decorations and passed out, never making it to the second dinner or the birthday party.

The next day we found that santa had come and left a little something for each of us. We went to my friend Kuku's house for Christmas lunch, and then to Anjali's house for Christmas dinner. This was the American version of Christmas. In fact Nisarga was shocked that when I called my mother and brother that morning, which was still Christmas Eve (24th dec) for them, they were not doing anything special. For Americans Christmas Eve is a day to spend with friends or simply prepare for the big day... Christmas.

Anyway, apparently I overdid it during those previous 48 hours because on the 26th my stomach said £&%! you. Yup!!! I had the runs big time. Perhaps this was the Greek version of Christmas... ala hard core partying Dionysos's style. Basically while I was asleep my stomach and intestines had an emergency meeting and having come to the realization that I was on a path to self implosion by food they decided to send me a message loud and clear: we are on strike until you stop treating us like a garbage disposal. And the whole system shut down. No one else from the dinner or lunch was sick, just me. I got the message. I ate nothing all day. In the afternoon I had a banana, and then some boiled potatoes with butter. As my dear friend Harris reminded, this was the time to be grateful I was not in some hotel room in the middle of who knows where, but comfortable with everything I needed around me, a western (sit-down instead of squat) toilet, and lots of toilet paper. Yes, I was dam grateful.

And so... we spent our first Christmas together. We listened to Christmas songs on our IPods all day for the whole week I think. And although there wasn't snow, there was plenty of chill, lots of good food, spiked spiced cocoa, way too much food, and so many good friends with loving hugs and smiles to greet us with.

Last Christmas I gave you my heart but the very next day, you gave it away. This Christmas...

Kisses to all and to all a good night!

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

merry Xmass and LOVE



WISH YOU
joyfull, blissfull, aware, sun/moonfull, meditative,abundant,prosperous, wealthy, healthy,naturefull, lovefull,beautifull, tastefull....
XMASS

much love
nisarga / eryk

12 days of christmas indian style

an oldie but goodie!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owK5tHjL0aE

Monday, December 22, 2008

last minute christmas gift idea in case you are still searching...

Appetite for seduction: BK’s new fragrance
Burger King’s new Flame body spray offers an eau de meat for men
By Sarika Dani
TODAY staff
updated 6:27 p.m. ET Dec. 17, 2008

The way to a man's heart may be through his stomach, but the way to a woman's heart — according to Burger King — may be through a new meat-scented body spray.

While fast-food chains aren't exactly best known for selling signature fragrances, on Sunday The Home of the Whopper rolled out a men's body spray called Flame by BK. The 5-ml bottles are available for sale in Ricky's stores in New York City and on a dedicated Web site, firemeetsdesire.com.

If you're salivating for a chance to marinate yourself in flame-broiled flavor, relax: The experience can be yours for just $3.99 — a small price to pay for some seriously mouthwatering mojo.

"My assumption when I heard about it was that it would smell like french fries and burgers," said Luis Bejaran, 24, who manages a Ricky's store on Eighth Street in Manhattan. But, he said, that wasn't the case. "It's a combination of Axe body spray, TAG and this YSL cologne I have. It's one of those scents that's not sweet, and light at the same time."

While Bejaran said he would be certainly be willing to set his body a-Flame, his female co-workers were not so sure about its meaty merits. "It's not the best choice for a man," offered one.

Still, as of Wednesday afternoon Bejaran says the store had sold at least 10 bottles, and plenty more people had stopped in or called to inquire about it. Many were drawn in by the store's window display, which currently features "the Burger King guy, half-naked," said Bejaran. Only four Ricky's stores were lucky enough to get the "King" special window treatment, however.

It's true that the reclining, vaguely nauseating Burger "King" does not make for the sexiest spokesperson, but his appeal, like the fragrance itself, may lie in its ridiculousness.

On firemeetsdesire.com, Burger King takes pains make satire of the "sexy is serious" stylings of other fragrance campaigns, offering this description of the scent against a chic black background: "The WHOPPER sandwich is America's favorite burger. FLAME by BK captures the essence of that love and gives it to you. Behold the scent of seduction, with a hint of flame-broiled meat."

As with any decent marketing stunt, the whole Flame campaign has stoked the embers of opinion among fans and critics alike.

"I would not wear it out of principle," said 23-year-old Mike G., after seeing the slim silver package sporting art of a flaming heart. "It's from Burger King. I would never wear a cologne from a fast-food restaurant. It actually angers me slightly. I mean, the packaging says heartburn — what are they trying to say?"

Perhaps that beauty — as they say — is in the, er, nose of the beholder.

URL: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/28284679/?GT1=43001

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

infinite nature

below are texts written in Annapurna Base Camp in Himalayas 4,200m.I was inspired by mountains, during 8 days trekking, which i did with Deepa, as a closure of 2008.

CREATION
who am i, whos inside me,i am my creation , day by day, only i create myself.
i am trying to remember that my thoughs are my life! i am god inside me, thank you
god for helping me to remember my i`s, ignite my fire and uncertainty.i am richness , so all treasures belongs to me, all universe, now, always and forever. the ring of the life has no closure,all will be changed, all is changing,the infinite circulation,the breath of death and life, for millions of years, and one second.there is so many experiences waiting for me and behind me.and yes i was here many times but i forgot to remember, i lost my memory, but i can be there in dreams and in my awareness, my recognising that i am only this , do i ask for so much?

PROSPERITY
i want to be now,explore myself, know myself,reach the inner core,be inside me. i want to love wholeheartedly, with no shade of ego, i want to be in union with all, and anyone who i am meeting in my life.deep compassion and understanding to our paths to our search and to final understanding of truth. i want to discover my skills, things i do best, to serve for humanity and be lost in it.i am total in my laughter, dance, tears, study,and my life. i am prosperity.i trust and have gratitude for every second and every day.the god is the body and the presence is infinity.this is my life in this second and one second before is not existing in my mind, dissapears like the moon during day, there is nothing left behind, only memories.now even this are dissapearing , there is nothing and everyyhing , now i can understand what was my fears.

DEATH
105 years , i could say its long , in fact its only 15 circles, every is so amazing, planned so much in advance by some unbeliveable forces.105 yers to experience all life to be ready and get friendly with this last day, last breath , last taste of life. what a miracle it is.more grey hair is covering head, i became more mature, more aware, more experienced, more beautifull, more peacefull, more gracefull and more confused.day by day, second by second, getting closer to myself.i am looking back into the life and i feel peace, all fears of death are gone now, only moment of my joy stays forever, and i trust to keep this memory in the last breath of my mind in the aware second , the last second.i spent so much energy on those worries, and none was materialised.death is my destiny , i am jumping in her gorgeous arms, death become alive in my life, i can fall asleep in total harmony.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Nadabrahma Meditation for Dec 12 Full Moon

found these instructions in another source so i copied them and sharing them here. they are more comprehensive then what i wrote before. hope you will join us...



Seated comfortably and with eyes remaining closed for the duration of the meditation:


First Stage: 30 minutes

Sit in a relaxed position. With lips together, start humming loud enough so that if you are doing with others you can be heard by them slightly. This is meant to create a vibration in your body. So what is more important is the vibration, not how loud you are humming. If it helps, you can visualize a hollow tube or vessel filled only with the vibrations of the humming. A point may come when the humming continues by itself and you become the listener. There is no special breathing, and you can alter the pitch according to what is working for you at that moment, and move your body softly and slowly if you feel the urge to (remain seated with eyes closed though).


Second stage: 15 minutes

This stage is divided into two segments of 7.5 minutes each. For the first part, move the hands, palms facing up, in an outward, circular motion. Starting at the navel or heart, both hands move forward and then divide to make two large circles mirroring each other. This movement should be so slow that at times there will appear to be no movement at all to someone looking from the outside. The intention is to give energy outwards to the universe.

After 7.5 minutes finish the circle you are making, and turn the palms facing down, slowly and gently, and start moving them in the opposite direction. Now the hands will come together towards the navel or heart and divide outwards towards the side of the body. Feel that you are receiving energy, whatever you need the universe is sending your way and you are open and eager to receive it.

Again, if your body feels like moving allow soft and slow movements to express themselves.


Third stage: 15 minutes

Sit absolutely quite and still, observing yourself inside.


“Relax and witness the body is separate from you, the mind is separate from you. Your only identity is the witness. The Sanskrit word for witnessing is Buddha!” - Osho


Thursday, December 4, 2008

full moon meditation

Hello,

We would like invite you to joining us for meditation on 12th December 2008.

Antigoni and myself will meditate while fool moon night in Kathmandu @8pm. We will be doing one hour Nadhabrama meditation to connect our energies with mother Earth. This is the way to express gratitude for all that is provided to us every day, and to open ourselves up to receiving more fully.

The meditation consists of sitting comfortably with back straight and eyes closed and... :
30 minutes of humming,
7.5 minutes of giving (palms up and extend hands outward from the heart or hara making a circle outwards, bringing the hands back to where they started and repeat for the duration),
7.5 minutes of receiving (palms down, and extend hands outward to the side first and then forward and then back to where they started and repeat for duration - basically the reverse of the previous), and
15 minutes of silence.

Please join us any time between below mentioned time for as much or as little time as you can, and send your gratitude, love, compassion or simply think about Earth as a beautifull source which allows us for happy living. You do not have to do all or any of the above meditation, that is simply what we will be doing. We will be in Kathmandu, on a trek.

Date : December 12 , 2008, Friday.

Kathmandu Time 8pm-9pm
London Time 2:15pm-3:15pm
Warsaw Time 3:15pm-4:15pm
US/Eastern Time 9:15am-10:15am

If this time is inconvenient for you, you could connect with us for just a few minutes during this period, and then have a fuller meditation at some other time during that day. Full moon days, especially around sun set, are particularly strong for meditations and energy work.

wishing you peace, love and beauty!

with gratitude,
nisarga and antigoni dhyan deepa
--

"life is to relax, to trust, to rest, to love, nowhere to go, nothing to achieve, then the whole energy is available to dance, sing, celebrate and live".
Osho

"If your cup is small, a little bit of salt will make the water salty. If your heart is small, then a little bit of pain can make you suffer. Your heart must be large"
Thay Nhat Hanh

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

On Living...

The first two days at Pelling we walked around and visited different monasteries and wondered around. This was followed by two days of not doing much, the first coming straight after Nisarga’s bathroom session which was understandable. But by the second morning of not doing anything I started to feel edgy. And I wondered why. It took me a few hours to figure it out but once I did it all made sense (doesn’t it always?). All I’ve known all my life is living/ having a base somewhere and travelling for work or tourism. Either way those days are numbered and I’m usually seeing or doing something. So when it became obvious that we were going to use 2 out of our 4 days at Pelling not going anywhere (walks, monasteries, jeep tour rides, etc…), I felt like we were wasting time. Either we SHOULD take advantage and see more of what is around here, because we probably will never make it back to Sikkim, or we could have gone somewhere else, another town, and seen or done something different.

And then I realized… I no longer have a base! This is our first trip since I officially moved out of my apartment and I have been feeling the anxiety manifesting through my body but haven’t been able to understand it fully or articulate it or even pin point it because it’s so absolutely new to me. For example, since the recent workshop we did at Osho-Nisarga, the one right after I moved out, I’ve had a cold and I had diarrhoea for a few days. But most dramatic has been the fact that I have been picking my fingers endlessly. This wasn’t the case during Vipassana or Gurdjieff workshops. It was a huge contrast. And I just couldn’t stop. Poor Nisarga would grab my hands and hold them and say “please stop”. I just couldn’t. Why was I back in that self-mutilation mode, why was I being violent against myself, what aggression/ stress/ anger/ pain needed to get out?

So no longer having a base means I am not on holiday from a base, I am not going back to any particular place, I am constantly travelling or… I’m just here… now. And that now is right now, and maybe up to some days, and that’s not much stability, and that’s ok. I have to learn to incorporate “living” time “on the road”. As in just hanging out and reading, internet, watching movies, writing, etc. Normal stuff. And when I realized this I felt so much calmer. I am right now hanging out and Pelling happens to be the backdrop where I’m doing that. Great! And it’s ok that there is no home to go back to, that there is not a travelling from or to, this just is. Our next home (as in hotel) is unknown, as is the road, and that is ok. I don’t have to count the days of my trip or holiday, I don’t have to rush, I don’t have to take advantage, I don’t have to do anything just because I’m somewhere new.

So what did we do during our two days of just living? We watched “March of the Penguins”, which made us feel warmer in our surroundings! We also watched “The Secret”, my first time and Nisarga’s 7th or so. And we watched “What the Bleep Do We Know”, which we have both seen a few times and highly recommend both of these last movies to everyone! We listened to Deepak Chopra’s entire audiobook “The 7 Spiritual Laws of Success”, also highly recommended, and to Osho discourses. We went on line at the town’s only internet point, with 3 computers, and checked for workshops we want to do over the summer and other things of interest. And we called my mother on skype and wished her a happy 65th birthday! Nisarga, being the incredible romantic and loving pure soul that he is, ordered my mother a red rose to be delivered to her job on her Birthday! He did some yoga, and I read the transcripts from 7 of Obama’s campaign speeches from his book “Change We Can Believe In” which Nisarga picked up at the hotel’s library where we are staying. And we laughed and cuddled and enjoyed our days of just living. And on this day, I stopped picking my fingers again.

Thank you for your grace universe!

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Buddhist Monasteries

Tibetan-style monasteries (gompas) are scattered throughout the state and were a highlight of our visit. Unlike the monasteries we have seen around Mcleodganj or the ones I have seen in Leh, these are approached through long roads of tall, colourful, prayer flags set on long bamboo poles, adding a royal feeling to the ambiance.

Just outside of Gangtok we visited Rumtek Gompa, the surrogate home of Buddhism’s Kagyu (Black Hat) sect. We sat for a one-hour vipassana meditation in the monastery building which was very soothing for us both. The monastery building was constructed between 1961 and 1966 to replace the Tsurphu Monastery in Tibet, which was destroyed during China’s Cultural Revolution. The giant throne within awaits the crowning of Kagyu’s current spiritual leader, the 17th Karmapa (of the level of the 14th Dalai Lama), whose picture rests there for the time being. This young lama fled from Tibet in 2000 but is based in Dharamsala because Indian authorities have prevented him from officially taking up his Rumtek seat out of fear of upsetting the Chinese government. Perhaps that is why there was so much military presence at the complex. In fact, I think we saw more camouflage and arms and boots then we did maroon robes and shaven heads. The sect is called Kagyu because of the priceless ruby-topped headgear used to crown the Karmapa (spiritual leader) during key ceremonies. Being woven from the hair of angels, as it is said, the hat must be kept locked in a box to prevent it from flying back to the heavens. Nobody has seen it since 1993, when the 16th Karmapa died. Only when the 17th Karmapa is finally crowned will the box be unlocked again. We really hope that is soon, because the military’s presence is absolutely distracting and disturbing to the whole peaceful and spiritual environment at the otherwise very village-like Rumtek Gompa Complex.

The Lingdum Gompa we visited near Rumtek greeted us with young lamas chanting at the end of their afternoon lessons and prayers. This soundtrack to the sun setting across the valley was enchanting. We found this Gompa vibrant and peaceful, beautifully decorated, and somewhat regal as it rises out of the forest and hill top.

In Pelling, we first went to Sangachoeling Gompa, the second oldest gompa in Sikkim dating back to the 1600s. Its magnificent ridgetop setting is reached by a steep walk up between a walled passage. Once there, there were several white washed stupas enclosed in long prayer flags to greet us. We sat for one-hour in vipassana meditation here as well, and the drum beating, chanting, and other instruments played by an old monk on the top floor was a wonderful companion. Nisarga made an insightful point while we were walking up to the monastery, that while in Europe at ridgetops and at the highest hills you will find castles, because that is the best setting for defence against war, here you find monasteries, perhaps because it is thought to be the best setting to be closer to God.

We also went to Pemayangtse Gompa, which dates back to 1705 and is one of Sikkim’s oldest and most significant Nyingmapa gompas. Pemayangtse translates as “perfect sublime lotus”. Just before entering the compound there is a sign that reads: “These iron poles with prayer flags are dedicated to all sanctient beings of six different realms for eternal liberation and particularly for the under mentioned persons and victims by negative forces…” The numbered list includes “Twin Towers 9/11”; “Coalition Forces in Iraq”; “Sergio-De-Melo (U.N. Envoy) and Anna Lindh”; “Madrid Train Blast”; “Iran Earthquake 2003”; “And to the victims of genocide, mass murder, ethnic cleansing round the world, Yugoslavia, Serbia, Haitia, Rwanda, Nigeria, Zimbabwe, Liberia (Monrovia), etc”. WOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOW!

This compound is ringed by gardens and traditional monks’ cottages. We sat for a one-hour vipassana meditation here as well, but I must admit I could not remain centered the full hour with the sounds of the young lamas outside and the small but lively birds flying in and out. Upstairs, fierce looking statues depict all 8 of Padmasambhava’s incarnations. And on the top floor is an astounding seven-tiered model of Padmasambhava’s heavenly abode which as hand-made over the course of five years by a single dedicated lama! WOWOWOWOWOWOWOW.

Who is this Padmasambhava guy you ask? According to our travel bible, The Lonely Planet: “Known as Guru Rinpoche in Tibetan, Sibaji in Nepali/ Hindi, and Padmasambhava in Sanskrit, this 8th-Centrury ‘second Buddha’ is credited with introducing Tantric Buddhism to Tibet. Padmasambhava statues and murals are common throughout Sikkim. In his most classic form, he’s usually shown sitting cross-legged with wild, staring eyes and a trisul rod tucked into the folds of his left sleeve. This leads to the form with a trio of heads in progressive stages of decomposition representing the three kayas (aspects of enlightenment). Padmasambhava has 7 other alternative manifestations. The most striking of these, Dorje Bhurpa Vajrakila, shows him with three frightful heads and a lusty wench gyrating on his groin.” Thank you Lonely Planet.

Now a bit about Buddhist Tantra from our tantra teacher Ma Ananda Sarita: “The word Tantra is Sanskrit and has several interpretations, including ‘the way’ but also ‘methods’ and, in an expanded sense, ‘methods of going beyond’. It can mean ‘transformation’ and, in an expanded sense, ‘transformation of poison into nectar… In Tibet, the marriage of Buddhism with the native ancient Shamanistic Bonn religion gave Tantra a very different background. It is more death-oriented, with adepts meditating in graveyards or imagining their consort as a skeleton. Through this type of meditation you can transcend sex and thereby birth. It focuses on leaving behind the wheel of birth and death and the transcendence of the physical dimension.”

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Sikkim

Sikkim is a state that is not technically part of the group of states that form India’s Northeast, but since it is also way out here (we are working on it, map coming soon!) this region is often referred to as Sikkim and the Northeast. In fact, Sikkim’s neighbour to the west is Nepal, to the north and Northeast it is Tibet and China, and to the Southeast it is Bhutan. Its link to India is from the South, where it is bordered by the state of West Bengal. There is no airport so the only way to get here is to fly or take the train into northern West Bengal, as we did, and then drive up. Just as we crossed the border from Bengal we were greeted by patches of red, purple, fuccia, and pink splattered throughout the side of the road during our windy 5 hour drive, with poinsettas growing in the wild everywhere.

It is a mountainous state and the air is crisp and clean. It was an independent kingdom until 1975, and has long been considered one of the last Himalayan Shangri Las. Mountain valleys which plunge from spiky Himalayan peaks are lushly forested with pine and rhododendron trees. Near the Sikkim-Nepal border, and visible from Gangtok and many other towns and points around the state, is Khangchendzonga (8598m), the world’s third highest mountain.

The main language in Sikkim is… Nepali! The “original” Sikkimese migrated here from Assam and Myanmar/Burma, followed by those fleeing religious strife in Tibet. The Nyingmapa form of Mahayana Buddhism arrived to Sikkim with three refugee Tibetan lamas who bumped into each other at Yuksom, just north of Pelling. There, in 1641, they crowned Phuntsog Namgyal as first chogyal (king) of Sikkim. At their most powerful, the chogyals’ rule included eastern Nepal, upper Bengal and Darjeeling. However, much territory was lost during wars with Bhutan and Nepal, and throughout the 19th century large numbers of Hindu Nepali migrants arrived, eventually forming the majority of Sikkim’s current population.

The state government has earned a reputation as the most environmentally aware in India, including fining people who pollute steams (unheard of!). It promotes organic farming and foods even. It is noticeably much cleaner here in comparison to the rest of India, and plastic bags are totally banned (no, really, they are, not like the supposed ban in Himachal Pradesh). The official state animal: the red panda! No smoking signs can be found throughout restaurants, and you hardly see people smoking cigarettes or biddies (Indian cigarettes). Drivers hardly honk when they drive, and when they do honk they do so once and lightly… very civilized.

China has never officially recognized India’s claim to Sikkim, so to maintain pro-Delhi sentiments, the Indian central government has made Sikkim a tax-free zone, and has poured tons of money into road building, electricity, water supplies and local industry… including liquor production. As a result Sikkim is surprisingly affluent by Himalayan standards, and most Indian standards really, and unfortunately it also has the highest alcoholism rate in the country. As we were entering Gangtok we noticed a large building complex brightly and boldly marked as a rehabilitation centre. And when we went out walking the first day we could not get over how many liquor stores we passed, at least one for every block it seemed. And that was only outdone by the name brand stores we saw: Puma, United Colours of Benetton, Tommy Hilfiger, Addidas, etc. Granted, being this close to China, some of the defected items or imitations must make it to these shelves, maybe, but still, these are authentic stores from these labels! Hell, Delhi got its first Puma store just a couple of years ago. We walked along Mahatma Gandhi Marg, which 2 years ago was converted into a pedestrian only walk way and is wider then most roads in Delhi (I exaggerate but it was obviously a double lane two way road before). There are benches and flower pots that run along the middle and stores, restaurants, etc… along the sides. It’s soooo lovely!!!

And guess what we found here? POSTCARDS!!! Beautiful, big, postcards. And what else did we find? Celebrations full force for World AIDS Day, December 1st. Apparently they started about 2 or 3 years ago. There was a booth at MG Marg, with a wall to sign, red ribbons being given out, informational pamphlets for distribution, and the schedule of events for Dec. 1st including a walk through town finishing with a rock concert! (Rock is big in the Northeast) Young men and women were all over it and as we walked along we crossed paths with many proudly wearing their red ribbons. When we got back to our hotel for a snack, the manager showed me his two red ribbons and bunch of pamphlets. I was very impressed!

One big BUT… it’s dam cold at night here! It’s chilly during the day, unless you are walking or staring at the sun, but at night… BBBBRRRRR. And I don’t fare well in the cold, I so don’t. I was in an incubator as a baby after being born because my body temperature was too low and I really don’t think it ever adjusted fully. On the other hand, I guess this is good practice for our time in Nepal, next week (what was I thinking when I agreed to that?). When we left Gangtok and headed 4 hours West to stay at Pelling for a few days, we started to wear our gloves even during the day! And Nisarga wore his hat at all times… to sleep, to go to the bathroom, throughout the day! I even bought a hat with fleece lining. Did I mention BBRRRRRR? Yes! BBBBRRRRRR. Our noses were permanently red and frozen.

The weather, and the travel I suppose, took its toll on our health a bit. While my diarrhoea stopped once I started eating meat (I always had faith pork and chicken would help not hurt me!), my runny nose, cough and phlegm filled chest is on its second week. Nisarga went through almost 2 days of fasting, but two days later he was up for a couple of hours vomiting and shitting everything out. During our three days in Pelling I stuck to one meal per day consisting of chicken noodle soup and cheese momos (dumplings), and after his long night in the bathroom Nisarga stuck to porridge, butter toast and bananas.

Another first during this trip was Nisarga experiencing an earthquake. Not a grand scale one, but the unmistaken feeling of the earth shaking beneath your feet and moving along with it everything around you was definitely there. Having experienced these soft earthquakes in Lima and Delhi (when the epicentre was Kashmir!) I knew right away but he was confused and baffled. By the time we got to the door and opened it, it was all over, and he asked the people from the hotel about it and they said it was normal. Tremors continued, another 3 or 4, throughout the day… sending us in a state of alarm and tension each time. I suppose since the Himalayas are still growing… maybe that was just them stretching a bit. A bit nerve wrecking however given that these constructions don’t seem so dependable, and that the Northeast (although not Sikkim) is known for its civil unrest and bombs and blasts here and there. Aagggg.

for all our pictures from sikkim, go to: http://picasaweb.google.com/nisargaanddeepa/Sikkim#

Friday, November 28, 2008

A Northeast Thanksgiving

After one and a half days of travel we finally made it to Gangtok, Sikkim’s capital. As in we took an autorickshaw to the town from the Satra, from there a shared jeep ride to the ferry, then the ferry from Majuli island to the mainland (the experience of which was much more peaceful the second time around), then a shared jeep ride to the town, then an all day bus ride back to Guwahati. The bus broke down before reaching the final destination, although not too far, so we all disembarked in the dark (it was only 6pm), and started walking. We got on a local bus which took us where we could take another local bus to the bus station. We had a quick dinner and go on the overnight train to northern West Bengal. This was the first time that Nisarga was travelling third class sleeper non-AC, and my first time in 4 years, so basically we were under the impression we’d get sheets and a pillow… but nope! Everyone around us started unpacking their bedspreads and whatnot and … well… we added a few layers on and were grateful that we were exhausted so that we were bound to get some sleep at least. Nisarga was smart enough to bring along earplugs, because the orchestra of snoring was incredible!!! My ipod earphones were the best I could come up with. From the train station we took a jeep share 5 hours north into Gangtok, and finally a taxi into the city and a hotel where we could set our weary bones for a couple of nights. (In the pictures, that's Nisarga on the top bunk with his beige hat on.)

Actually, we dropped off our bags, washed our faces and brushed our teeth, and headed out for Thanksgiving lunch! Although this was the calendar day after Thanksgiving (the day set aside to give thanks for what you have, an official holiday in the US, based on the fairytale story that the pilgrims sat and broke bread on that day with the Native Americans and everyone lived happily ever after together – instead of the Native Americans all being killed off or put into conservation camps… but that’s another blog entry on the efforts to create a false common “American” identity when everyone’s roots are from somewhere else), we were starving and I wanted to celebrate Thanksgiving with the only family I’ve got by my side: Nisarga! So we stumbled into a really nice restaurant with a marvellous view of the highest Himalayan peak in India, ordered yummy food and said what we were grateful for! I ordered pork. Then we went to a café and had chocolate balls, sitting next to a Christmas tree listening to Western Music. It was such a treat!!! In the US, since the family tends to get together during Thanksgiving, it is also often the time the Christmas tree goes up and is decorated. The welcome platoon of poinsettas along the road and the giving thanks and now the café setting that could be anywhere in the US or Europe… it really feels like Christmas and that the end of the year is coming. I don’t think I have felt that in over 5 years, since the last time I was in the US at this time. With perfect timing, Nisarga’s mom and dad both called while we were at the café… as if to share in the family moment with us (actually they were worried about us due to the Bombay terrorist attacks but still, great timing!).

That was our Sikkim Thanksgiving! Thank you!!!

Thursday, November 27, 2008

we are fine!!

we just got back to civilization and heard about the bombings. we have called our mothers on skype, and now letting you all know that all is well on our side. we are going to read now about what the hell happened there. thank you all who wrote and asked if we are ok. lots of love!!

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Majuli Island

If my memory serves me right this is the first time I am riding on local busses in India. I realized on this trip just how cushioned my travel has been up until now. Sure I have been to rural places, very rural, but I have gone for work and I have been met there by locals working in the area and they have ensured I get from A to B comfortably and without any effort on my part. And when I have travelled with friends or family (I’ve only travelled in India alone twice) we have either gone to one place and either flew or took the train in and out, or we have hired a car for several days and explored different towns or the countryside that way. And the car is not only more convenient, it acts as a protective bubble of sorts; it is like a safety blanket. You don’t have to ride along with strangers, locals, end up dusty or sweaty unless you want to. You stop wherever you want, leave whenever you want. You inevitably distance yourself.

So here we were… mingling! We rode through seemingly endless tea plantations, and gold, yellow and emerald rice fields. Hazy blue mountains across the horizon. It’s really quite beautiful out here. Just over two hours later we were in a large town with traffic jams and pollution. 45 auto-rickshaw minutes later and we were at the “pier”, a windswept sandbank from where the over-over-over-crowded ferries for Majuli Island depart. My biggest concern… we don’t have enough toilet paper to last us until we get back to Guwahati… .the last time I noticed seeing toilet paper! Now I may have lived in India for 5 years, and I may have become Indianized in some ways… but my butt is still Western. Ok, time to ration the TP (toilet paper)! But my nose is still running profusely from my cold. Aaaauuuuuuuuuggggggg

We board the ferry but decide we want to ride on the roof instead, as we see some people standing up there, in the open air. Yes, bright idea… at the time. We see a few boxes up there and some cargo and a few guys playing cards... No problem. We whip out the yoga mat and place our backpacks so that we can comfortably lean against them. Within 30 minutes however, the roof is full with cargo and 6 motorcycles, not to mention the dozens of men staring at us like “what the hell are you doing up here?” Clearly this is not the regular seating area for white folk, once in the blue moon when they actually come this way, and definitely not where a lady should be. We laugh and enjoy the breeze and sunrays that manage to poke through the spaces between the parcels and boxes and bags filled with chilli.

Majuli island is situated in the Brahmaputra River, and it is considered the world’s largest river island. It is filled with rice fields and fish traps in water meadows, and the local tribe is called the “Missing” people. Majuli is also home to 22 ancient satras, monasteries of neo-Vaishnavism and centres of learning, art and culture. This faith was formulated by 15th Century Assamese philosopher Sankardev, and it eschews the caste system and idol worship, and focuses on Vishnu as God especially in his Krishna incarnation. Most worship is expressed through dance and music, and dramatic plays from the Bhagavad Gita and Krishna’s life are performed.

We decide to stay at one of the satras, and pick the nearest one (of the two mentioned in our travel bible, The Lonely Planet) from where we are dropped off after our ferry ride. And who do we meet as we are walking in? Another Polack!!! Nisarga has only met one other Polish person since February in India, a woman at Osho, and on this river island in this satra guest house, tucked away in the far north east corner of this subcontinent, he runs into the second. Antek tells us about the festivals and the way of life and his experiences over the past 2 weeks staying here. He is hoping to have enough good pictures after his stay at Majuli for some kind of photo exhibit.

So according to him, the satra whose guest house we are staying at is a smaller satra, with only about 100 monks living there. They do not cut their hair after a certain age (but they can shave), although at other satras monks do cut their hair. They wear white loungies (like a wrap) in the form of pants always, even young monks who go to school. People come and leave their sons to be raised here in this faith, like at Buddhist monasteries. Unlike Buddhist monasteries, the kids go to regular school with the village kids, and they are given extra lessons on philosophy, theology, dance and music at the satra. As adults they can pursue worldly livelihoods, like running a book shop, a printing press, or whatever they wish. But they can not eat outside the satra, they must bathe each and every time before eating, they can not eat anything that is not prepared by themselves or within the satra (unless it’s natural like fruit), and they should not touch or be touched by others, accept anything touched by others or give something directly to others (but if this happens they should bathe). If as adults they decide to leave the satra because they want to marry and have families, or for any other reason, they are free to do so. There is even one satra where married monks live with their families. There is a certain femininity about many of the satra monks, a lightness, gentleness and gracefulness. Even among the kids.

We woke up just after 5 with the birds and other creatures of nature eager to have us join them in welcoming in the rising sun. Mist covered the fields and the Missing people were beginning their day. We walked around the village surrounding the satra guest house for about an hour. It was soothing and lovely. However, Nisarga was feeling unwell, weak and with a stomach ache. I had diarrhoea. All that food exploration over the past 4 days took its toll on our stomachs I suppose. So we returned for herbal tea and further sleep. It was a mostly lazy day. Walking in the village again in the middle of the day, loudly followed from a safe distance by young school kids. Walking into the nearest town for a light late lunch, closely followed by dust. Now I have to say, I am absolutely amazed at the far reach of the dish TV in Assam! It is absolutely incredible. In what would otherwise be considered bamboo shacks on stilts you find Dish TV outside!

Also, one quick point about the satra guest house we are staying in. Its basic but clean and safe and just fine. And there is no running water. To flush, wash, or do anything that involves water, we pump water out of the ground into plastic buckets which have turned a shade of orangey brown, from the colour of the water coming up though the red earth below. I have stayed without out running water before, in Bolivia and Peru, but not so often and not in a long time I must admit. (We do have electricity however, hence these blog entries, thankfully.) As Nisarga puts it, the water smells like it has every possible mineral in it. At the guest house, there is a couple from Denmark, Antek, and us.

Unfortunately we will not be able to go to Arunachal Pradesh or Nagaland, the two states we had settled on for our second week up here in the Northeast, because foreigners need a government permit to enter these states and the process time takes between 1-3 weeks we are told. We accept our reality (and the festivals we will miss as a result, which is why this trip was planned for now), vow to return one day with said permits already processed, and several rolls of toilet paper, and opt to head over to Sikkim for the second week instead since we can get the permits necessary at the border when we cross it (so we are told anyway).

One extremely interesting thing, at least to us, about Assam: No Postcards Anywhere! Not in the capital, not at Kaziranga, and certainly not at Majuli. And those are the three highlights of the state. So we can safely say there is a state in India where you can not get postcards! Now you know we are really way out there!!! Not even those taken in the 70s or 80s that are faded. None.

So off we go again… in reverse: an autorickshaw to the near by town at 630am, a shared jeep to the “pier”, the ferry from Majuli island to the mainland (an experience which was much more peaceful this time), a shared ride to the traffic jammed and polluted town of Jorgat, and an all day bus ride back to Guwahati. There were no seats available on the only direct bus going to Guwahati so we sat up front just behind the driver… which was actually perfect for seeing the beauty of the country side we past. In fact, as we were passing Kaziranga, the driver pointed to our right and there was a rhino!!! In plain sight, very visible on the low grass, and not far off at all! Amazing. What a lovely “see you next time” from Kaziranga. Apparently goats are a real traffic problem; during this 8 hour ride I saw several just dash out of nowhere and cross the road and our poor driver trying not to hit them. As a side note, how great it was to see Nisarga in action, getting us on that bus and situated… I was very impressed!